To be up front and truthful, I am married. But due to a medical condition, my wife no longer wants anything to do with sex. WE have not had sex in over 7 years. It leaves me, unfortunately, high and dry. Since, for me, gratifying my partner is as much a turn on as being gratified, masturbation does not relieve all the pressure or desires. Does looking elsewhere make me a bad guy?

All I am looking for is some no-strings sexual activity with a woman. Been down the self-gratification road way too long. The length of time probably has me on a hair trigger, but I love foreplay, including giving oral, love after play, and at the risk of sounding my own horn, am a wizard with my tongue and hands. I do not leave my women unfulfilled.

My Ideal Person: Looking for a woman who loves sex. A woman in a similar situation to mine would be ideal. And frankly, at this stage, I'd even go for a pity fuck.

Discretion is a must.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Beatles, Styx, Supertramp, Toto, Yes, Billy Joel, Kansas

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Something I've never done, and not even sure I'd have the guts to try, but I fantasize about sex in public. Like in a meadow on or near a popular hiking trail...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Food Play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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