We are a committed couple, married 20+ years, exploring sexually with carefully selected others for the past 8 - 10 years. We have found that a certain amount of rapport is essential to success when playing with others. We are not looking for best friends or committed social buddies, but we do require a certain amount of mental attraction to enhance physical attraction whether we are dealing with another man. woman or couple. We have both indulged in a solo excursion a time or two but prefer to play together and in the same room to avoid drama.

With respect to solo males - PLEASE NOTE: She is the only one who participates and it's usually only if he can be watching. She is only interested in an honest 9" or more. Thickness is an added plus. Cleanliness, sexual health and discretion are all critical. Liars and exxagerators are not appreciated and this will always become painfully obvious at some point should you try it.

My Ideal Person: We are pretty laid back, easy going and open minded with respect to perspective partners. Partners need not me hard bodies by any means. Our primary concern is that a person is Clean & healthy - this is extremely critical. We aren't into people that have b.o. - regardless of all other factors you gotta be friendly with the bar soap and/or douche.