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I am 33, 5'11, about 220 chunky lbs. Dark shoulder length curly hair, goatee and dark eyes, some hair on my chest: I don't manscape - at all. I am versatile, but more of a bottom with a top mentality. I can be aggressive. I am DDF and HIV-. I drink like a fish and smoke like a chimney (but respectful of others)!! I'm kind of quiet, usually
I don't go out for a night on the town often, but when I do I make it count. The Slippery Noodle and Tiki Bob's have got to be the two best bars in downtown Indy! Escpecially The Noodle... Live Jazz, Live 50's groups... Tiki Bob's for dancing and hip-hop.
I have a good, but sarcastic and raunchy sense of humor. I love most any kind of music (not fond of most country, but love Reba and Dolly). I am also a book FREAK! I love to read. Primarily King/Koontz, but I'll read nearly anything from cereal boxes to the Classics (have a thing for the Bronte sisters). I know how to dress for any occasion, but prefer jeans and a sweatshirt, or slacks, a nice shirt and tie.

Just looking too see what is out there. NSA, but I would like a friend first.... or even LTR with the right guy. I have posted a REALLY bad face pic from my cell. Yes, that is my real hair, no extensions, no perm, no nothin, but some glossing polish and hair-spray LOL. Most of the time I put it up in a pony-tale or stuff it under a hat. I'm trying to grow it long enough to Locks of Love, however it looks unprofessional and more wannabe rocker. With the right couple, I might try a 3 some or more-some.

My Ideal Person: My likes: A man as tall or taller. VERY hairy (chest, belly, butt, crotch, BACK etc). I like a mustasche or goatee, not fond of full beards, but I like stuble (go figure). If you look like you should be laid out on the floor in front of a fireplace and played linebacker... that's perfect! I do have a thing for bears! You host. You be versatile/top, and a BEAR..... I am not fond of most twinks or gym bunnies. I like a man with some belly! Gimme a chunky monkey any day of the week! Gimme someone who likes to cuddle and knows what foreplay is. Race is unimportant! I would like someone between 25 and 45. I have not been with a man of color, I haven't had the chance.
Rules are made to be broken; if you dont fit my bill, hit me up anyway. What I like is what I like, but that doesn't mean I wont like you. These are preferences, and not carved in stone. The man is more important than the body. I hope you feel the same (that sounds like new age crap but hey.. just me). This is just me

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
too many to list

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
being rimmed and topped by a guy in chaps and boots and nothing
else. It's not a leather, or control thing, just the
outfit! Also, a man who will take me as I am, not what they
want me to be. My ultimate fantasy is to find love again,
until then, we'll see. I don't fall easily anyway.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Leather, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Hugh Jackman!!!!! I love the accent, the body, and the fact
that he's hairy. And well... I hate to admit this but... Sean Connery

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