About me
I'm an architect, I'm located in the Kingston, New York area and have a studio here. I'm 6' 4" tall, was rather slender in my youth, but now would only go so far as to say average. I have medium length, and medium brown hair and a very closely trimmed beard. Since I work for myself I'm available during the day as well as evenings. I have the ability to be extraordinarily discrete if appropriate. I travel up and down the Hudson Valley, from Albany to NYC, and western Connecticut and Massachusetts continously, so meeting in different areas is practical and simple.

Women that turn me on...
I love a passionate woman for long, extended touching, stroking, kissing and potent, powerful couplings. Intelligence, witty conversation, flirting, sense of humor, strong will are all assets. The real foreplay is in the conversation before, starting with a phone call, then a lunch,talking, laughing, maybe a light touch at the table. By the time we're naked we will know something about each other.

Intelligence and fantasy–
Probably the two most important things to me with a lover. I can be more turned-on with a creative and uninhibited woman or couple than anything else. Taboo topics and speaking aloud whatever you're thinking or feeling at the moment is also very erotic. While I certainly enjoy a 'plain vanilla' session with a missionary woman sometimes, I'm interested in more creative encounters.

I love an aggressive woman, in fact I hope you're on top of me the first time because having your naked female body over me, with your breasts swinging, and your curvy hips spread over mine, and seeing a patch of hair where your legs part is a real turn-on. I also enjoy being on top, and thrusting in rhythm with you. Open to trying any kind of sex except pain or humiliation.

Your needs
Your pleasure and comfort level are as important to me as my own. I am completely disease and drug free and practice safe sex. I want everyone to have fun and feel good here. So if that means you need to climax three times before I do, I'll go along with that(just kidding).

There isn't any part of a woman's body I don't find sexy. Love to touch, stroke and caress every part of you from head to toe, no part is off limits.

Personal interests and favorites
I confess that there are a few things about a woman that really turn me on, one of them is female body hair, in just the right amounts and in the right places- a few dark hairs which grow by your nipple is very erotic, a scattering of dark hairs from your navel down to your pubic line is also very sexy, and I do enjoy a thick mass of pubic hair, though it would seem that our culture doesn't seem to be going in that direction.

I love the shape of a woman's hips, from the hip bone on top, around the inside of your smooth thighs, down to your cheeks.

Another favorite of mine is to enter you from behind. First I'd fondle your body all over, rubbing your stomach, breasts, pulling on your nipples, and then running my tongue down the crack of your ass. I'd wet all your openings while you are on hands and knees, and then stroke open your vagina with first one, then two and then three fingers. I'd love to get you nice and wide open and then mount you. If I could penetrate you fully with one long slow, steady thrust that would be extra fun. I can touch your cervix with the tip of my penis, and certainly simulate your G-spot, if you're that kind of woman. Rear entry allows extra deep penetration and I love that. One detail I enjoy from having you like that is feeling my scrotum touching your clitoral area each time I thrust in and out, plus my testicles will get all wet from your secretions. The added bonus for you is my fingers stroking your clitoris with each stroke. Of course if you would like to help touch yourself I would love to see and feel that also. Sometimes in this position when I finally climax I push very, very deep, plus I swell a little more as I'm ejaculating, I'd grab both your breasts fully and put my head on your back. Again, without a condom on, I'd love to finally pull out of you and watch my semen drip out of you and onto the bed. While I am completely Tantric( able to control my orgasm at will) there is one exception- If you are ready to watch me ejaculate, or even would like to control exactly when I do, here is what you need to do and then I cannot control myself: have a hand around the shaft of my penis, stroking the glans; also be fondling my scrotum and also licking and putting my testicles in your mouth; then lastly (and this is thanks to a young pre-med student from Florida I met while living in Boston many years ago)you play with my anus, stroking it with your finger(s), penetrating it slightly. If all these things happen I will climax in less than 3 minutes. I would much prefer when I do release that you take my penis in your mouth and swallow the entire load of semen, I don't need to be deep-throated at all, but I would love to have my testicles stroked and the glans flicked with your tongue with each of my contractions. This makes me shout out-loud, but I tend to be very vocal anyway. I hope you are too. I'd love to have you on top of me, either standing up(see below), or straddling me, with your breasts pressed tightly against my chest- in this position I can hold both your ass cheeks as we move together, and then something a little different, I work your anus open and slide my finger in, playing with the rim of it. Then, when I'm close to orgasm, I push my finger rather far in, and stroke my shaft from inside your rectum, feeling each of my pulses from within you. It must be what it feels like as a woman to have a man ejaculating inside you. Of course, feel free to climax yourself, I would prefer that you do, I'd love to feel your internal contractions both vaginally and anally.

Under the hood
OK- I am 9"+ long and almost 6" in circumference; enough said about that. And I can stay hard almost indefinitely when I have a condom on.

My Blog and story pages
Please read my blog and stories if you have time. It contains a collection of true stories about my sexual encounters over many years. They are almost all true, and as they always say, you just can't make-up stories more enigmatic, personal and even perverse than real human sexuality. It will be a work in progress, and as it evolves please let me know what you think. You will need to meet me to find out which one isn't true.

More Photos

Yes, I have the very naughty ones in my private album, if we become friends then I will be glad to share them with you

My Ideal Person: Our first time
I want to focus my attention on meeting a woman(hopefully you, if you're reading this it's probably because I saw your profile and/or photograph and am very interested and attracted to you), I do believe in animal attraction, so the first time we meet, while I enjoy talking and conversation, I'll be thinking about how smooth and soft your neck is as I begin to stroke it. I'll catch your scent for the first time as I begin to kiss your neck and cheek, coming up to you from behind, and putting my arms around your waist. As we sit in the restaurant talking, I'll continue to think about touching you for the first time, sliding my hands under your shirt, feeling your stomach, grazing my hand over your navel and stroking the sides of your chest. Now I'm wondering how soft your breasts are and how big your nipples will get as I feel the swell of your breasts through the side of your bra. Your bra is the sexiest thing you can wear, because only a woman can wear one. When my hands begin to find the clasp of your bra, I'll love the moment when I unfasten it for the first time and your breasts swing free, I'm not going to touch them just yet, in fact perhaps the first part of me to touch them will be my tongue. As you can imagine I'm hard at this point and no doubt you can feel me through your pants or skirt. Now I'm back in the restaurant with you again and have an impulsive idea, it seems like we're getting along rather well and you are in fact a very attractive sexy woman, so I lean over the table and say–" I want you to go into the bathroom and take off your panties, or if you're wearing a skirt take them off right here at the table, then I want you to hand them to me inside a napkin, because I just have to inhale your scent for the first time right here, right now. you do this and I smell your incredible scent while you're looking at me across the table. The panties do seem to be soaked thru..." To continue our first time together, now I'm playing with your waistband, another wonderful moment to me is feeling your hip bones, and your curves on the hips, then I'll find it hard to keep my fingers out of the top of the pants, since I'm still behind you it's easier than ever to run a finger or two into the top of your pants, feel the elastic on your panties, and where does that hair begin on you, is there a lot? Maybe I should tease you and stay outside your panties until you push my hand inside them...I'd love to slide my hand over the front of your crotch over your pants or panties, feeling your venus mound, and the vulva underneath it, maybe a finger will slip under the elastic and feel a few hairs. unless you shave, then I might slip looking for those hairs and end up with a wet finger...Now I'm wondering how many fingers you can take inside- would you enjoy three once we get you all prepped. The prep will require my tongue- I hope you don't mind. Now I'm thinking, pull your pants and panties down from behind and run my tongue down your crack first, maybe I'll find a few hairs in there also before I reach the bottom- I'm on my knees now, but you're still standing, though to be polite you've spread your legs slightly. I unfasten your pants and they drop to the floor. Have you ever had your anus played with and penetrated with a finger, a tongue, or a penis- that can go as far as you would enjoy. So now it's time to stroke the inside of your thighs- very smooth and feminine, now my hand goes across your ass cheeks- I impulsively pull your panties down to your knees- it was a little abrupt, but the truth is I'm getting very turned on by being this close to you and I'm dying to see you naked, in fact it's all I've been thinking about while we ate. If you pull me up to your face right now, I'd love to kiss you deeply, and if you run your hand across the top of my pant waistline, you'll feel my extremely hard penis above the pants and underpants with a wet tip (I produce quite a bit of pre-ejaculate). So while your shirt is still on, you're naked from the waist down, let's just leave you that way but put you on a sofa or a bed, because I'm dying to begin my travels with my tongue. We'll lie head to toe, and my tongue is traveling up from your inner knee, inside your thighs, but I stop just short of your vulva, although your legs are instinctively spread slightly and I see your luscious pink labia for the first time, plus there's a powerful scent filling my head, it will be hard to keep from putting my tongue right down the middle of your opening and tasting your body for the first time, but I'm going to tease you (a little bit, not too much) before I spend that quality time between your legs...I'll stop now, but I'd love to complete this story with reality. I'm looking forward to hearing from you.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Two women at the same time. I fondle and stroke them together, including penetrating them both at the same time with both hands and two fingers each. Then I would penetrate one with my penis, pull out of her and penetrate other one, and go back and forth between them until both of them had climaxed, and then I would finally ejaculate inside one, pull out and let the balance of semen, while I was still partly hard, drip into other woman.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, The moment of penetration, when I first feel how warm &
wet you

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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