I’m 57, 5’9, 230# DWM. I moved to Oneonta from LA almost 11 yrs ago now. It was a bit of culture shock but I like it here. The countryside is beautiful, the people are friendly & genuine. Except for about 4 winter months the weather is tolerable. I've made some good friends but I'm still looking for that special someone. I enjoy skiing, darts, pool, movies, intelligent conversation, dining, lazy Sunday mornings & intimate weekend get-aways.

I run a small mfg biz, about six employees. We mfr comm'ns eq't for helicopters, headsets cables, switches & various special adapters. We sell to EMS, law enforcement, military etc. The biz is growing & it keeps me busy.

I am interested in hearing from you if you think you are deserving submissive. Tell me about yourself & why you believe you would be happy in this type of relationship.

My Ideal Person: I'm looking for my submissive soulmate. I've been involved in several relationships in the past where B&D games were part of our occasional bedroom play. After giving this matter much consideration, I’ve decided that what will make me happy is a long term B&D leading to an intimate bonding & a possible lifetime collar. I understand that in order to achieve this type of relationship, much time & effort is required by both partners. I am prepared to take the time & make the effort to win your complete trust. No less should be expected of me since you are contemplating offering me a supreme gift, the sublime surrender of your heart, body & soul. If we are so fortunate as to make it to this point I promise to cherish & nurture this gift always.

I prefer a good girl who wants to please & pleasure her master over a brat who feels compelled to misbehave in order to be spanked. I prefer sexual foreplay spankings where sensuality, playfulness and arousal are the objectives. I like to take the time to rub, massage, lovingly fondle, kiss, lick & tease my cuffed, bound ^ blindfolded partner between swats.
Hopefully a punishment spanking would never be required. It is far less fun & while it would be lovingly administered for a valid reason & result in comfort & consolation afterwards but is more likely to result in corner time than lovemaking.
Communications is always important at any time in any relationship, but especially when a sub & her master are getting to know each other. I will ensure my submissives needs and desires are learned, and your limits are respected at all times. I understand that I must possess your complete trust & devotion before an erotic power exchange can occur. At all times I will remain a supportive partner and confidante.

Unfortunately I don’t have any children. It is my single biggest disappointment in life but one I’ve learned to accept. If you have children this is a plus & I understand & would never ask a sub to put my pleasure before her family.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, anal sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

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