With very many thanks to the international lady admirers I have and who have - written to, flirted with, and made improper suggestions to - me... <3
However, I'm looking to MEET and I'm afraid my radius is somewhat limited. I trust you'll understand if I don't get back to you?

Normal, Mr. Average here. No great looker (see piccys! lol), but kind, considerate & generous lover. Very experienced and not one of your 'penetrate anything that moves' types, both by preference and resulting from some of life's-little-traumas.

This means I've become a bit of an oral specialist over the years and I can tell you quite honestly that cunnilingus is my all-time favourite activity.

I hope that this aspect of my persona is viewed advantageously as 'something a little different' from your run-of-the-mill 'penis-mongers'?

I can accomodate during weekday daytimes, during school term time - call 'em 'coffee-mornings'? Otherwise, I can travel.

Well, that's the basics.

Get in touch!

My Ideal Person: A genuine 'friend-with-benefits' please.

An exceptional lady could possibly ask for more of me, I guess... nothing is writ in stone. Genuinely otherwise taking one day at a time.

I'm fairly easily pleased, but I do prefer a humourous, laid-back, intelligent conversationalist.

I'd love to find me a willing lass, who'd occasionally like to 'take me away from all this', be my friend, lover & confidante.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Dead Can Dance, Bauhaus, Cocteau Twins, This Mortal Coil, Ultravox,
Shriekback, Echo & The Bunnymen

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage, Bukkake, for you to guess !!!

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Humour & intelligence

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really, they can be 'pretty people' but are
sooooo remote and unreal.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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