Now that I've had a chance to sit back, watch and kind of see what's going on, here goes. I'm a hard working professional whose job requires discretion in all things.

Looking for interesting people. Fun, intelligent and ready to experience all the fun things life has to offer. Am new to this particular lifestyle or way of meeting people, but not just paroled,or been defrosted from being freeze dried or coming out of a cave. Love the idea of trying new things. I'm open to most things and welcome emails.

I'm not into drama, bs, gamers, players. The non-criminally insane or those who have reality issues need not reply. Not to say a lot of men on here play games also, I am not one of them and not wanting to waste my time.

I don't rush into things. I don't invite women to my home immediately. Although, that may happen with time and trust. I do not tolerate alcoholics although social drinking is nice. Not into drugs or users. And you must be d/d free. I love oral sex, both as a giver and being pleased by it. I am picky, but you have to be when you are scared of diseases and personal safety. I'm squeaky clean and expect the same. If I have one quirk, it's about smells and tastes, and both must be pleasant and clean.

I understand some folks have different fetishes and am willing to go along with most anything. I have a few of my own, but they must not involve filth, nasty stuff, dehumanizing behavior, or anything to far out there or bizarre.

I'd like to find that that one right person, as hard as that may be, and if she were to come along, that's great for both of us. Not lookin to just hit the sheets. I'm pretty flexible about most things in life.

If you like sitting on a bench watching the water, watching a good movie with a glass of wine, or hitting the open road on two wheels, perhaps we have something to talk about.

My Ideal Person: I like people that take care of themselves, but are not fanatical about it. I'm not perfect but someone that takes pride in their appearance. D/D, squeaky clean, and hygiene minded is a must. I'm open-minded, and willing to get out there and try things.

Only ladies who are 21-60 please, no youngsters need to message me I am not interested and am not into pedo's, although I do have to say, ladies who are in the late 30s to early 40s are particularly nice to talk to, and generally want to stay up later. I prefer a woman that is mentally mature, emotionally stable and knows what she wants out of life. Looking for someone who is a lot of fun both in and out of the bedroom. I like seduction the way it was meant to be. Seduction and intimacy is important and can be expressed and enjoyed by all consenting adults. Enjoying and being together both in and out of the bedroom is a plus, although not a requirement. I would hope that you enjoy oral sex because I like giving and receiving. If interested message me. I am open and honest. I am not interested in players, cheaters, alcoholics, drug addicts or abusive women. I am sure I am all you would be able to handle in the bedroom. With that said, there is also more to life than just hitting the sheets. I have a very high sex drive and like spontaneous sex with both fulfilling you and being fulfilled by you also in the bedroom. I love giving and receiving a good massage. Sometimes that's just as good as intercourse.

If you're not bored to death by what you've read, feel free to drop a line. You can email direct to y using the sn as on here. Love to hear from ya.