Sexy responsive lady in settled marriage wants to meet new friends for no commitment, fun only, very discreet long term, intimate relationship. My husband is very supportive and encouraging me to develop in the wife sharing with maybe a bit of hot wife (if you lead me there) life style.

However, you need to be single or as good as, divorced or really separated, I am sorry but married men have too much baggage for a long term friendly relationship. And please do not lie when you respond as it will quickly be obvious you have commitments - and that really destroys trust.

I dress well and enjoy wearing sexy underwear and the effect it has on men!!

I like Latin dancing, films theater and walking. I also like lively bars, all types of food and enjoy laughing.

I have had some great sexual encouters outside my marriage, in the past some through Adult FriendFinder so there are nice people on here, but I do not develop new relationships or have extra marital liaisons very often.

I am now looking for a long term relationship with someone who can become a friend with me and my husband, someone that will enjoy social occasions with me and not just someone who I meet for sex. Although there will need to be plenty of sex.

I know this is a tall order but the search will be fun. What have you got to lose?

Please don't be too hasty initially as I like to email and then meet socially first, to see if we are mutually attracted to each other. If I want to initiate contact my husband will make first contact with you.

If you want to "place" us in the lifestyle my husband and I consider we are wife sharing with a bit of hotwife occasionally, especially when I date seperately.

Non smokers only and please include a reasonable quality picture - no picture no reply.

My Ideal Person: Very discrete, single or unattached males, who live in London, or within 1hr travel(this is important so please take note I will not reply to anyone who does not fit this condition) but you must have a sense of humour and enjoy sex, of course.

You do need to be able to accommodate, as I might like to stay overnight occasionally especially if we meet over a longer term.

If you are not able to accommodate then I am afraid we will not be able to take things further.

You will be looking for a regular, discrete partner someone who you enjoy doing social things with as well as meeting for sex.

So my ideal date would be meet for dinner or theatre and then back to your home for the rest of the night.

I have to like and enjoy the company of my partners before I can consider any further involvement. However, it will always be relaxed with no commitment or strings attached. I don't need another husband, the one I have is brilliant, but I do want a friend with benefits to share me with him and add that extra excitement and innovation.

I find extramarital affairs very exciting and foreplay is very important to me. I am looking for mutual attraction which causes both fiery lust and slow, gentle, passionate and intense lovemaking but it needs to be there for both of us.

Too much to ask in my new partner? Well it might be interesting finding out.

I have a number of fantasies I would like to achieve, but I need you to lead me there, how far can you take me? My husband knows many of my secret fantasies (but not quite all my most secret), and no doubt will add some of his, and will help you discover/implement them.

Of course, I would like to help you with your fantasies as well and like the idea of you and my husband plotting what comes next.

It is important to me that you are comfortable with meeting my husband and that you both get on as he is possibly going to be sharing me with you. It's the element of something more than just sex, we have to like you and, of course, you us.

I will and like to mostly date on my own but on occasions I might want to involve my husband. Don't worry he is very hetro and its optional, as it only works if we are all comfortable with it.

But I always tell him everything I do - its a big part of the fun for us both.

I do like the social aspects of new friends, so "wham bang" does not hold much attraction for me. If we cannot converse and enjoy each others company why would we be sexually attracted?

My husband says I need some romance in my relationships and he is right, so if you cannot see yourself meeting me other than for sex, it is unlikely we will have any mutual spark.

I know I am asking a lot but please take the time to reply (with a picture and interesting content) you just might be the ideal Adult FriendFinder partner we are looking for.

Please read my answers to the Additional Questions as they will give you more about what I like and what we are looking for in a future relationship.

Husband here: several contacts have asked if this ad has been written by me and although I had a lot of input it is definitely my wife's views. She makes the decision on who she will meet and if she takes it further. We have met some great guys on Adult FriendFinder over the last 4 years and I know she is looking forward to meeting more.

But please remember you need to be a non smoker, living in London only and want to have a long term intimate relationship that extends further than just sex.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I have a number that interest me but you will have to interest
me before I will tell you! However, that does not stop you
telling me yours when you contact me, as it may make me more
likely to reply to you.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, And what excites you, let's experiment together

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Never, I am not interested in celebrities.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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