we as a couple would like to have a more fullfilling sexual experience and n ot have restrictions on either of our sexual preferences.we wouldnt mind the bar scene but weve never been to a bar.we enjoy all sorts of music,we mostly listen to metal.we would like to have another girl join in for now but were also thinking about DP,though were only interested in 3sums.things wer are interested in in the bedroom are oral,anal,spanking and light biting.we're new to iowa and in these 5 mnths living here we havent really gone or done much socially.we are not looking for older men,but more preferably from the ages of 21-27.hubby is looking for an older women around the ages of 35-50 to just have fun with and wifey is looking for a women around the ages of 21-26.