First and foremost, I'm not here looking for chat buddies who I'll never meet or have any relationship with.

I am a college graduate in my early 30s who works as a computer programmer for a company in Beachwood, and I recently moved to an apartment in Shaker heights. I'm new to the area, and would love to find someone to hook up with. Sex is cool, but what I really want is a relationship. Until then, I don't mind NSA hookups. I know I may never find 'the one', but does that mean I have to live a life of celibacy?

My Ideal Person: As far as NSA's are concerned, I want someone d/d free and local (Cleveland or Akron). Also NO GAY MEN OR MALE/FEMALE COUPLES!

As far as relationships are concerned, I want someone single (i have no interest in helping anyone cheat on their boyfriend or husband). It's probably easier to say what I don't want:

People under 25 or under 45
Women with children
racists/homophobes/people who discriminate against other people's religious beliefs (or lack thereof)
Drama Queens
Liars
Cheaters

What I do want is someone dependable and trustworthy and is willing to accept who I am.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I would enjoy being a sultan in an persian harem. Bellydancers
always turn me on.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Fetishes, Candle Wax

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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