I'm quiet, tending to watch until I know what I want. I take my time, but won't hesitate if a connection is established. Life is too short not to make the most out of every moment, and I've no wish to regret not reaching for something when I had the chance. I am strong-minded, strong-willed, but not unwilling or unable to look at another’s point of view. Just don’t expect me to put up with political tirades or expect me to agree with everything you say.

Once I get to know you, you'll find a warm, passionate woman who just might surprise you. I love sex, touching, anything sensual. Make me feel, arouse my senses, reach inside me and make me want nothing more than what you have to give... and you'll get the same in return. But there is much more to life than sex; I want more than that, so if you’re only in it for sex, please don’t contact me. I'm not into games. If that's what motivates you, don't bother; I lose interest very quickly.

I’m a little too honest for some. If you want someone who will stroke your ego and say just what you want to hear, regardless of what she really feels or wants, I’m most definitely not the one for you. If you enjoy the challenge of a woman with fire and passion with equal measures of gentle caring, I may just be your type. Treat me as you want to be treated, with respect, with care, with passion, and you’ll get the same in return.

I’m a BBW – if that’s not your cup of tea, that’s fine. But know it up front so neither one of us is wasting our time. (That means full-figured, not thin, not athletically toned, by the way, if you don’t know.) I'm a looking for someone who knows how to touch the soul rather than just the skin . . . and who wants the whole woman and not just the outer wrappings.

My Ideal Person: If all you want is a sexual encounter, with no strings, no attachments, then I'm not the one for you. Sex is easy, but without attraction and affection, it's pretty empty after the first flush of excitement fades. I'm not into one-night or one-weekend stands, and I most likely will not have sex with you on the first date. I'm not interested in being your excitement on the side. If you’re married, I may talk with you, but the likelihood of our ever meeting is pretty slim. And yes, I know there are always extenuating circumstances, which is why I don’t rule it out completely.

I need someone who knows how to touch the soul rather than just the skin. Someone who knows that a kiss is a lot more than just lips meeting. Someone who isn't afraid of crossing the line for something important to them. Someone that can hear what you mean, rather than just what you say. And most importantly, someone who wants someone with those very qualities in return.

Be honest. Be real. The sexiest thing in the world is a man who can make me laugh and smile. A man who isn't afraid to communicate, one who is willing to give as much as he wants in return. Someone who matches my own passion for life and everything it entails. Looks are truly not important to me, it's what is inside that intrigues and attracts me. Enjoy reading, movies, dinner, music, quiet conversation, or those types of communication that don’t need words. Long walks on the beach, dancing under the full moon, sex in an open meadow; be adventurous, perhaps a little dangerous. Strength and maturity go a long way, and intelligence will intrigue me every time.

Be someone who enjoys a woman for who she is, looking past the surface fluff to the person inside. Have depth, substance. Be someone who knows how to find things to smile about even on the darkest of days. Be open. Be alive.

Be yourself.

Be someone who knows that the best things are those that take some work. That looking past the surface often brings the best rewards.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Dido, Jeff Black, Amanda Marshall, Seal, Marc Cohn

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I'm more likely to fantasize about someone I know personally...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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