We're an easy going, drama free; HWP married couple who have been together since 2003. She enjoys girl on girl play, and we both enjoy soft swap when everyone’s attracted and compatible. This could lead to more later on with the right couple, but we haven’t made that leap yet. We consider ourselves more of a "play couple" than a "lifestyle couple", as we're only lucky enough to go out once a month or so and travel distance is an issue for us. We only play together!

We have many family/work responsibilities and can't drop everything on short notice. We're looking for a few quality friends in and out of the bedroom who can take a little time to get to know us before we try to play together. He can be a bit shy at first, but warms up after getting to know you. She’s more outgoing and gets very playful if the mood and setting are right. She has some experience, but his experience came a few years after we became an established couple.

My Ideal Person: We've had a few soft swap experiences after the ladies played and have played with single women as a couple. We discovered that we were very comfortable with our experience so far. We'll continue to seek local ladies and couples with bi or bi-curious woman and see where it goes. We prefer small gatherings over group settings and often spend quiet evenings at home with some red wine and a movie/sports/stand-up comedy. Motorcycle riders, red wine lovers, sports enthusiasts, and comedy club fans would be good match to hang out with us. We are both drug and disease free. He is baby safe, but she is not. Sorry, but if either of you smoke, are 420 friendly, or you are a single male, don't bother us or you'll be blocked!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Gary Allan, Kenny Chesney, Allison Krauss, Rascal Flatts

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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