Alot of girls it seems are after the Perfect skinny guy. This isn't me, I'm a big man. If thats not your thing then its cool but don't be a bitch, no one likes a rude person. I guarantee you I will show you the same respect you show me.

I AM REAL, to many fakers out there. Please be real too.

And for the record: I am clean, I do brush and floss; no, I'm not going to try and screw you the first time we meet, I'm a gentleman; Respect is given and expected; Discretion is understood.

I enjoy pretty much everything and am willing to try it if I've never done it before. Bondage is nice but hardly a necessity, its a tool for pleasure just like a vibe or the 'bullet' but the main goal is to have fun and have no regrets.

just an FYI If you do write me a mail, then turn off your profile then there's no way I can write you back.

Update: I had lapband a little while ago so the new me is smaller then the old me but like all things its an ongoing process. Yeah I'm a big guy but as I was recently told, I am 'talented'

++Update January 2012++ I've lost 14 pant sizes and 3 shirt sizes, the belly is still there but its going away!!
**Friends can see pics of me**

My Ideal Person: Comedy, you must have a sense of humor!! You must be willing to chat and get to know me some, I'm a picky person as I'm sure you are too. I want someone to have fun with and explore things with but we need to get to know each other first.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I think I'd enjoy a FFM 3some, I kinda did one when I was
younger but I want to be the bologna in the middle.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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