I am single, no kids, no exes. I am safe and disease/drug free and want to stay that way.

I've been out here for a little over a year and my priorities have changed. I was married for 28 yrs to a great guy that evidently isn't made anymore.

I want a man (please no one under 45) who is seeking a woman to make his partner in life which doesnt necessarily mean marriage. I want sex to mean something to both of us. I want to have someone who wants only me not a chick du jour and definitely not 2 or 3 to join us in bed to "spice" things up.

Yes I tried the "lifestyle". Tried swinging and was disappointed time and again. Even tried the booty call scene and that was even worse--how can that be good? Being called at 10pm on a Sunday cause you're horny and you're the last one he thought of. Even tried the benign sites that are looking for "relationships" except most were in prison or Africa.

My Ideal Person: A man, local preferred and please no women or interracial. Looking for a gentleman, a lover, a best friend, but if you're married keep looking elsewhere. Sorry if this offends some, but, I will not respond to black or hsipanic men and no one under 45.