We are a reserved married (32yrs)couple, she is 5'8"/190 blue eyes, brown hair, he is 6'1", 215 brown eyes, graying brown hair. Both clean and D/D free. Prefer attached couples. We have been on the edge for a long time and we are interested in getting more involved. We have had no problem getting naked with others. It's just that sometimes that's as far as we want things to go - and we just want to manage expectations. In fact our primary interest is in socializing with folks who think along the same lines as we do. Maybe it will lead to adult play but maybe it won't. We have been contacted by many nice couples who know what they want and do not want to waste time getting there. We are not a good match for couples in a hurry.

Not interested in cheating spouses or single guys using a couples profile. Or for that matter couples presenting themselves with a single female profile. We prefer that you are what your profile says you are.

Also not into IM / chat though we're happy to respond to / trade emails.

sidenote for married or single women only:
Under the right circumstances the wife is looking to explore bi-curious side with the right lady. Husband knows of curiosity and encourages exploration. Husbands not involved unless we want them to be some time down the road. wife not interested in meeting a couple.

My Ideal Person: We are most interested in watching / being watched by another couple or couples in same room/soft swap. We have had some light soft swap experience and we are hoping to build on that. We are re-evaluating our boundaries but need to be upfront that we are not yet sure where we want to go. If it eventually leads to swapping - we've been thinking that going to separate rooms appeals to us. Our thought is that we would be less inhibited - at least at the start - though we recognize and understand the turn-on that same room swapping gives.