Hi there, it's like having to write an essay for an exam .. first read the question!
I'm looking to be excited, for those butterflies, for a skipped heart beat and an involuntary smile when you hear a txt arrive or see an email waiting for you.

I want to meet someone with whom I can share some separate, special, secret, fun times. I know what I’m looking for (see above) but I’m prepared to be surprised – if we don’t try we’ll never know!

My life is busy with work, home, family and precious little else, and I want that to change - life is too short. Home is not cold but there is no intimacy and no romance, and as I said - life is too short!

I have a lot of interests and I can hold a conversation, have a good if a bit dark SOH, I only take the serious things in life seriously.
I love to go to the cinema or theatre or live music - I like to enjoy good food. I like to travel - a new city, a walk in the country, try the latest roller-coaster. I love to dance - although I'm rubbish at it.

Whatever we get into has to be very discrete; any relationship won’t work unless it is worked at and there has to be tolerance to each others work and domestic demands.

I’m tactile, I love to give as much as receive and my big weakness is kissing – without being too ‘Mills and Boon’ kissing is the essence of intimacy for me. Also, I’m not the wham-bam type – the journey is just as much fun as arriving – and if it’s a long journey then maybe we’d need to stop for a drink 

I don’t have any taboo subjects, ask me anything.

My Ideal Person: There's no point me denying that I'd like a relationship rather than a one-off, first and foremost a friend where there is trust and affection, but never forgetting we have other lives and I’m not looking to overturn your world or mine but definitely NOT just a platonic relationship!!! Friends with great benefits might describe it best!
Personality, a GSOH, wit, an ability to be made a fuss of and to make a fuss are key for me. Taking care of your appearance is great, OTT vanity isn't.
A desire to have fun and be a bit devilish and not miss an opportunity for adventure 
It’s what’s between the ears needs to be excited first – the body can follow.
‘They’ say that when friends become lovers they stop being friends, well in this environment maybe it’s lovers first but then friends for a relationship to endure

I don't smoke - but it's genuinely ok if you do.

Looks and age – not a consideration for me

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Dire Straits, Queen

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Meeting someone for the first time in total darkness, exploring
each others bodies and pleasing each other without being
able to see them.


Meeting a stranger in a public place, especially a train
or plane and finding a discreet spot to have sex and then
walk away.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage, Body painting, food play

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Gillian Anderson, she is just so gorgeous.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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