I am a big girl, I know that's not every guys type, I also know it is a great # of men's ideal.
(some of you need to come on out of the closet!) If it's not, I am not offended, just don't waste my time because I am not interested in someone who just wants to get laid and doesn't care who it is with. I prefer that I be the type of girl you appreciate and is IDEAL if you are going to talk to me, because I love myself and don't want to be with anyone who doesn't feel the same way or would change me. I am not here for just random hook ups. I like chatting here so I am online often since I am single and have no kids. So WHY I AM I HERE YOU ARE ASKING- I like sex and sexual things. I am open minded and I tend to no filter in things I will discuss. That's why I am on this site as opposed to others, so I can be myself and not follow some list of dating rules. That doesn't mean I don't also like hanging out and getting to know someone, that I am a slut, out looking for as much as I can get or that I don't want to just be with one person, should I find the right person.I would prefer to find one person who I could click with, but I also won't sit around while you make up your mind with no clue what you may be thinking. Just be straight with me and I will be straight with you. I don't mind taking time to see what might develop, but hey, that does take time.. Communication is really important to me.
Also if you are married, sorry I really don't care about the whys of a situation, I am just not interested in being involved in anyone's lie. I really prefer honesty and honest people.

My Ideal Person: I prefer someone down to earth and real, but yet a little manners can go along way. Don't talk to me all gansta or with words like jizz etc. I prefer educated people or people who can carry on a conversation. Educated does not mean college, it means you manage your life and your business. I will not let you show up at my door for sex.. Sorry yes while that IS the goal eventually, I am choosy and you should be too. We need to talk, meet first, establish an actual connection or some reason I would want to be with you and you with me. I also am just not that into cyber. It's going to be rare that I go down that road, so if you don't live too near me,and don't see traveling or discussing travelling, I am happy to talk to you and be friendly in a chat room, but that's probably all that will happen unless you get to my area.
As for type... well I am attracted to someone who makes me laugh, who has their head on straight, who is around my age or younger in general. No set physical type but a good smile and a GREAT sense of humor are very important.