*Note: We're taking a break and letting our membership lapse. We might still check in once in a while, but we've got other things going right now and haven't had time to play.

We are a fit and sexy couple looking for sexy women and couples. We've been married for 15 years and it has stayed interesting and exciting throughout. We're not normal and we're not looking for normal, because most normal people are boring. Of course, we have to say that most normal people don't find their way here!

We like to go out for drinks and good conversation, or maybe dinner and a movie, but having children, we often have other things going on.

Both of us really enjoy playing soccer and researching whatever piques our interest at the moment. He is into mountain biking, computers, anything that goes fast, and working out when there is time. She is into interacting with people (never met a stranger), reading, computers, and certain adrenaline rushes. She's a "for the moment" sort of person, creative and outgoing.

We love to take weekend trips to the mountains, and typically enjoy vacations at the beach a few times a year.

Some things that we intend to try when we have time are skydiving and sailing.

Our first forays into the lifestyle were with single women that we knew very well, some early in our relationship, but mostly in the last 5 or 6 years. Those experiences were a lot of fun for everyone! We really love to have another woman join us in bed.

Several years ago we decided to explore fun with couples, but not knowing any couples that we were comfortable approaching with the idea, we started looking here on Adult FriendFinder. We have met and enjoyed time with couples from the site, and also some that we met on vacation at Caliente Resort in Tampa, FL. (Side note - Caliente is a very nice clothing optional resort. It was our first time being socially nude, you should check it out if you are curious or interested in that sort of thing.)

With our family obligations and hectic work schedules, we don't have nearly as many "play dates" as we would like, but we really do enjoy them when the timing works out!

My Ideal Person: We are looking for interesting and sexy single ladies or couples to share hours of good fun. Let's get together for dinner or drinks and see what happens from there!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Sex in a no gravity padded room

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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