I am in the military (served in Germany, Kuwait, Iraq, & Afghanistan) and a grad student working on another degree. I have already seven college degrees but I do not consider myself smart, rather someone who is a hard worker and yes some would consider me way over-educated. Will be working on my PH. D or another Masters degree. I figured, if the government is paying, and I can do it on the job, I might as well do it, hell its less work for me to do. I am financially secured. I have my own business, bought my parents house, I have a room on base in Harrisburg, all three of my cars are paid off. So for those people that just worry about material things...move on. I work hard for my money and I invest well. For those that are worried about me taking your money, don't be because I could care less about what you have. Remember, when you die, you can't take it any of it with you anyway so don't be greedy. Share what you have for those that don't have any. Anyway, my hometown area in located in NEPA (Wilkes-Barre/Scranton area)I also live and work mainly in the Harrisburg, PA (State Capital Area "Lebanon-Hershey-York-Gettysburg-Carlisle." However, my job requires me to travel weekly to the Allentown-Bethlehem-Easton-Quakertown-Colmar-Lansdale-Hatfield area; secondly to the Pittsburg area; and thirdly Philadelphia area. I do travel throughout the entire state of Pennsylvania. I also travel alot to the DC; Alexandria, VA; and Fort Belvoir area for the military. I am in the history, political science, intelligence, artillery fields in both my military life and private life. I am an ultramarathon runner(someone that runs more than 26.2 miles at a time)at races on the weekend, I world traveler in both military and private life. I been to over 40 countries and 48 lower states, so if your intersted in traveling, I'm your guy, if you just want to stay home every weekend....just pass me by. I am a coach, a track & field official, I hold several state records for running (when I was younger), and so much more.... I love to go hiking and camping. Love the outdoors from horseback riding to fishing and hunting, to just a walk in the park. Love most sporting events. I travel alot to other states and countries, so 2 weekends a month I am ususally gone either with the military or personal business. I am a very physical, love to kiss, makeout and give people massages. LOVE TO GIVE MASSAGES!!! KISSING IS VERY BIG with me. I love to cuddle, hold a girl tight, LOVE foreplay, thats half the fun!!! I'm a risk taker, and conservative at the same time. It all depends on the subject and the person. I believe I have a good zest for life and I try to seize the day most of the time....mondays...well to be honest....just never do anything for me. I'm not into the bar scene, did that in college and it gets old. I get tested regularly with the military and I am HIV/STD free, I expect the same from my partner.Remember, life is short, enjoy it as much as you can, don't sweat the small stuff, work thru the big stuff, and depend upon your friends and family to help you get thru it all!!!

My Ideal Person: I want a person who is fun to be with, who smiles and can laugh at almost anything, while having a serious side to them as well. The person has to be honest, emotionally stable!!!, some what self-motivated, mature, open-minded, romantic, trustworthy, compassionate, loving, MUST LOVE PETS(as of 1st Jan 2009 I have a female yellow lab puppy!!!)...who loves to cuddle, loves to hold hands/be held, kiss, loves foreplay(which is so underrated and so much fun), and can give or try to give a good/great massage. Some one I can have an intelleigent conversation on most subjects as well as a great physical realtionship. Someone who is willing to try unique and new things in a sex life. Someone who is sensual, erotic, but with a CLASS of romantic flavor. Someone to dress sexy while out and sexy in the bedroom. Someone who knows how to be sexy for her man, but not always slutty (there is a difference)but not all the time. While dressing up is great...they must be confortable in sweats laying on a couch watching a movie as well.. KISSING IS A MUST!!!! Very physical is a key. Quiet or outgoing it does not matter as much, each person is their own individual and is unique. I want the person to be themselves. The has to be some chemistry and affection between you and me. I want a woman who knows how to enjoy a man and can receive enjoyment back. Someone who is a little free-spirited like myself. Someone who likes to dress up on occasion and show of her body in heels/hooker boots etc, but loves to wear sweats or her favorite pair of trusty jeans out to dinner. Looking for someone who can be a little slutty but not a slut. Someone who my friends or family may like, but in the bedroom very outgoing or playful. Role playing, light spanking, light hair pulling, bondage (Never leaving any marks), blindfolds, handcuffs, mutual massages, relaxing in a hot tub, talking dirty, sex in unique places or outdoors is also fun to do. Someone who is discreet, not that I need to be, but kids, family, or close friends don't need to know all the details of our sex life. Not out there to publish my sex life. Got to hold a conversation. Looking for a steady friend-fuck buddy/or if it developes into more into a long term replatioship or maybe marriage, then thats all the better for me, but I don't want to start off with the pressure of that what it NEEDS to be. I date much younger, much older and my same age of women, all ages have their benefits and vices. FUN is the most important key!!!!! MUST HAVE KISSABLE LIPS!!!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Hummmmm, so many ideas, so little time.....It all depends
on the person that I am with....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Just so she has nice legs, I'm happy with but I would
have to say Alissa M. or Jennifer A.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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