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Let me start by saying, I can fully appreciate the crap that you ladies contend with daily by some(most?) of the men here. I am not shy by any means, but may hesitate contacting you, not wishing to be seen as one of 'them'. If by chance, after reading my profile, I have touched a nerve or sparked an interest.. and you would prefer me to contact you, simply hot list me, as I rarely check my flirts. Note: I recently learned that if you have your privacy setting turned on, I will not see you in my 'who hot listed me' page..

Ok, about me... The short, short version, I am just an average, down to earth, physically active, easy going, SINGLE guy, who for the last 15 years has had full sole custody of my two boys who excel in scholastics and sports. One off to college this summer, the other has two years yet of high school. They are still my priority, but old enough now that I have the time to spend with a partner and begin fulfilling my/our desires.

Don't let my appearance fool you, I am a Taurus which means I am, by nature, extremely sexual, incredibly sensual, intensely PASSIONATE and always adventurous and experimental. On the lighter side, very affection, romantic and loving. ohhh Kissing is a must!

My Ideal Person: First off, I never judge anyone in anyway. we have our own reasons for being here and everyone's wants/needs are different...

NOT looking for:

I have no desire to sleep with everyone here or even with as many as I can, neither directly or indirectly. I don't have the need for notches on my bed post, as it were.. nor do I have the ego that requires a list of conquests....

I am definitely NOT interested in one-night-stands or one time hook ups..
Or even the... get in // get on // get off // get out... arrangement.
just not my thing...

looking for:

Simply looking for 'one' special person in which we share a connection for an exclusive ongoing (long term?) Friendship with Benefits.. Someone who's company I enjoy socially as well as intimately. You should not only have an easy going fun to be with personality, but are also very sexual, sensual (mind and body), open minded, adventurous........ and PASSIONATE !!..

Aside from a great friendship, I love stimulating a woman's mind as well as her entire body... I want the flirting, the teasing, the playfulness, the sensual, as well as the sexual.......Did I mention PASSION!!

We all have busy lives, but other than children, work schedules and distance, If we can not spend a few hours together at time, at a minimum once a week, every week, for Social and/or Sexual adventures, I may or may not be interested. Just being honest.. I want to spend time togther, Not really interested in a solely cyber/IM or phone/txt relationship.

Commitment wise, it doesn't have to be serious, we can find a balance, but I am looking for exclusivity. (see above) I am very open to the possibility of LTR, if we found ourselves going down that road..

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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