UPDATE - Please do not automatically add us to your instant messenger unless we have had a dialogue and have stated interest and given permission. Otherwise we will decline and block.

we are happily married couple. we are commited to each other and our family but like to get together with others for fun. we are attractive, clean, d & d free and expect all partners to be the same. we expect discreation and guarantee it as well. we have recent face pics to send so please do not contact us if you do not or are not willing to send them.

My Ideal Person: We are looking for single bi-females, select single men and couples.

Before we get much farther, everyone needs to understand the wierd schedule we have. It does make it a little difficult to schedule get togethers sometimes. I work a 4-2 schedule. This means my days off backup one day each week. Weekends (Fri-Sat or Sat-Sun) come every 6 weeks. So it needs to be understood that get togethers for the most part can't be last minute. Otherwise we need a little time to work things out. We also have kids that need a babysitter to consider as well. That said, read on.

We like to take things slow and get to know people a little through video chat. We think it is a great tool and have used it successfully in the past. It helps get the awkwardness of first meeting out of the way. We know what each other looks like. We know that any pics traded are actually of the people sending them. (ask us about that bad experience sometime) It also allows all parties to see if there is a physical attraction. No one expects ken and barbie but there has to be some level of physical attraction between all involved or someone is not going to thave a good time. Can you really get in to having sex with someone you are not attracted to?

We have recent, clear, unobstructed face pics available. If contacting us, please include recent face pics of the same quality. Job reasons prevent us from posting ours on the site. Once we start talking, you will understand why.

We require anyone we get together with to be 100% drug and disease free. No, pot is not ok. We do not use drugs of any kind (unless prescribed by our doctor of course), and we are completely disease free. Discreation is also a must and will gaurantee the same.

We are very committed to each other. We are not looking to replace our relationship. We only play together.

Those are the basic ground rules. If you can live with that, then contact us and we will see where it goes. We do love to have fun and anyone we get together with will have a great time. Pretty much anything goes with in reason and everyones limits. Ours basically are nothing to do with poop, hardcore pain(light spanking is good), or anything illegal. Light bondage is ok but not the hardcore stuff you see / read about on the net.