We are an older couple who have been together and married for more than thirty years. We are intelligent, curious, cautious and fit, with energy younger than our years. We live simply and economically. We have a progressive mindset on important issues. We are very much in love after all these years together and have a wholesome sex life amongst ourselves. It is only recently that we have come to experience the lifestyle, but it has enriched our lives amd deepened the love we have for one another. We are guided by simple principles rather than rules or limits: we require mutual respect among all with whom we would be intimate; the experience must be enjoyable for all; there is no place for pain, humilation or domination by one over another. Where we are willing to go depends on the circumstances of an encounter and the comfort level of those involved. We have found that we want our intimacies to be with friends with whom we have mutual affection, respect and trust and where erotic fun can evolve naturally and comfortably.

My Ideal Person: We would like to meet a couple with whom we could have a far ranging, intelligent conversation about anything in the world. We would like to be with people who read books and newspapers. We are pleased that the Bush-Cheney nightmare is finally over and hope our friends feel the same way. We would like to meet people with whom we could share outdoor activities such as canoeing down a river. It would be nice to meet people who would like to share a rental in the Caribbean or the south of France. Wouldn’t it be fun to take a sailing trip together or travel to wonderful new places. Eroticism is great, but we need more!

We are seeking couples who are sensitive and sympatico with whom to have a dialogue, develop trust and build a friendship leading to erotic activity when all are comfortable. Sometimes this had evolved quickly, but it often takes a bit of time. In our profile, we have told you about our mindset and objectives; we expect you to tell us about yours (i.e., if you have a sketchy profile, please tell us about yourselves in an email). Then we can continue to learn about one another, exchange photos at some point (G-rated is fine) and get on the phone before setting up a meeting.

It would be helpful if you could tell us about your interests and activities that we could share, and how you engage the world. If you believe we could "click", send us a message or even a wink if you are constrained by Adult FriendFinder. We will get back to everyone who contacts us.

[Please note - We hate to be negative, but we are NOT looking for single men or women or people who are pushy, demanding or domineering. We are trim people, so please be HWP and not too heavy.]

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Our fantasies evolve in response to stimulation or events

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Massage, Swapping partners

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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