UPDATE 10/26/2011: I am looking for friends in the Oswego area. I'm not interested in friends more than 5 or 10 miles away as i have a tight schedule and travel is pretty difficult, I prefer in the actual city. I can host, but have a VERY small apartment for the time being. I have met one friend already and have a lot of fun with her.

I'm a funny, smart guy who is easy to get along with. I don't judge others and i find value in everyone i meet in some way or another. I'm looking for some friends with benefits, but might accept a play-only mate(s) if it feels right. I don't discriminate based on age, size, race, or anything other than whether or not you are fun, relaxed, and can string two sentences together! The mind is the sexiest organ of the body.

I am looking for someone who is as laidback as i am. If you are uptight, or wound too tight, or one of those people who are perpetually followed by dark clouds...i simply can't help you.

My Ideal Person: Someone(s) who is fun to be with, laid back. People who are free with themselves intellectually as well as sexually. I'm haven't "swung" very much, so I am also looking for someone to show me the ropes. Figuratively speaking, of course...maybe...

Again, please be relaxed and prepared to enjoy whatever time we have together and not worried about every little thing imaginable.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Hungry Lucy, Alice in Chains, P.O.D., Harry Connick Jr,
Mozart.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Group sex with another couple when i am there to fix something
at their house. Evenually i have sex with one of them only
to be discovered by the other, who then joins in.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Natalie Portman, Jessica Alba, Milla Jovovich, Brad Pitt

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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