We cant stand writing about ourselves. What is there to say? Were about as normal as anyone on this site can be, which probably doesnt say much. He writes: shes smokin hot, hes average. She writes: hes smokin hot, shes average. Both write: theres probably some truth and some lies in both positions.

We try to have fun in everything we do. If its really a horrible situation, we hope to at least end up with a funny story when its over. After being in the lifestyle, weve got plenty of both fun memories and funny stories.

We have both recently found how much better life is when youre in shape. Compared to a number of people on the site, we have a ways to go, but were a lot happier. We have no kids, but dogs that are either sleeping or doing something stupid. Were both professionals who are seriously career-minded.

The first meeting sucks almost as bad as writing about ourselves. There are always the awkward are they crazy people and do they think were crazy people questions hanging in the air. The answer to both is probably yes, but crazy is not all bad and you can barely tell during the first meeting. We prefer to meet over dinner or drinks rather than a club. Its just our personalities.

WHEN IN DOUBT, SEND US AN E-MAIL

My Ideal Person: What are we looking for? Its easy to say things like "hung to the floor" or "shaped like Fergie" and "available anytime" but thats not totally true. We do prefer people about our age and about our professional/educational background. This is more for personality reasons than anything else. Basic intelligence and respect is required.

What were mostly looking for are people who we mesh well with outside of the bedroom. Personalities make a huge difference, as does a shared life experience and/or background. If we cant have fun going out to dinner or drinks, then we probably wont have fun back at the house.

Attraction does play a role, but its a component of the entire picture.