We were a real couple that did like to play with couples and select singles....WELL things have changed. She has found religion and has gone to the extreme side and wants no part in the lifestyle we once enjoyed together. I have tried to discuss this religion with her and she is just so enthralled with it I can't even communicate with her any longer. I don't know where this leaves me after 20 years of us being together. And where does it leave me on a site like Adult FriendFinder....Not that I have found this site to be very productive most times...I don't want to be one of the single guys pestering women and couples. All I can say is if anyone as encountered this before or has any words of encouragement please get in touch with me. I am going to carry on my lifestyle and who knows maybe I will find someone on here that is right for me. I am 49, tall, attractive and straight and also well versed on giving oral, I am looking for fun, down to earth couples or single women for friendship and adult play.

My Ideal Person: Sincere, fun, down to earth, couples or single females interested in discreet fun. I'd like to see if there is any chemistry and then meet. I am looking for more than a one night stand with a single female or a couple that are close enough to each other to make it happen. I would also like to find someone to experience swinger parties with or a female to a party....I have never been to one before. I like people that enjoy the lifestyle and are mature about it....no drama. I am fun, intelligent and laid back. If you think you would like to get to know me let us know

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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