Recently, my boyfriend and I of over two years finally separated after a tumultuous relationship. He and I had differences on just about everything a couple could disagree on. So now I am back on the single scene. The one thing he was correct about and I totally agreed on was my lack of friends. I really do not have any close friends to talk to. Most of the time, I am alone, at home with just the computer and television to keep me company and that is not living; that is just existing. There is so much more out there that I am missing out on.

The reason I joined this site and several others wasn’t just about sex. Don’t get me wrong, I love experiencing orgasms and getting all sweaty but sometimes just talking to someone male or female; a friend with no benefits can lift the spirits with just a few kind words and humor. My profile has been on this site now for quite some time, but during the two years, I let it lie dormant and did not bother checking the site anymore. Then I realized, I have met some wonderful people on this site and we have remained friends without so much as a sexual connection, even though that was the intention.

Now, I’m back, only this time, I have a different intention. I want friendship first then if there is more of a connection, maybe more.

My Ideal Person: What am I looking for in a Partner(s)? Attraction is the first connection of course. However, what we find attractive may not be another's view. It doesn't have to do with the chisel features of the GQ models or well toned men you may see in Playgirl Magazine nor the Playmates and models in Hustler and Playboy.

Confidence in themselves is key, but not overbearing. Someone who thinks they are God's gift to women and men are easily exchangeable. Which brings up humor. We can be smart asses at times. Humor and laughter is the best medicine for what ails. However, it may cause side stitches from laughing so hard.

No recreational drugs of anykind. I am very adamant against it. Drinking is acceptable in moderation. If you can not "get it up" without drugs..the bottle better have the words, Viagra, Cialis, or Levitra and if it does, after four hours, I will take you to the ER.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Limp Bizkit, 50Cent, Will Smith, Madonna (oldstuff) and
AC/DC

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Food Play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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