I never really think of myself as shy - but I reflect on how I act, mostly quiet, I certainly may be perceived that way. I've been told I'm sarcastic and I probably am. Big sports fan (baseball, hockey, figure skating, more college football than professional, a little auto racing on the side). I like being at events for the experience and generally experiencing new things.

Though I am often quiet (or quieter than those around me) I enjoy a good conversation as much as the next person. The topic isn't that important. In fact it probably is good to be talking about something I'm NOT passionate about!

My Ideal Person: I'm pretty easy to please (though black hair and blue eyes renders me helpless). I look for someone who smiles. And is able to find a smile in almost any situation. The rest of the usual stuff, employed, children, age, married, etc. is always negotiable with a smile. I course I wish that meant *I* smiled all the time - no one does. But I do have a wide sense of humor, can laugh at myself, and look for reasons to smile.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Bob Dylan, Neil Young, Joe Walsh

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
An airplane, A movie theatre, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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