Flirts and Kisses: We understand the limits of standard members and will send a boilerplate email in response to a flirt so you can contact us if you wish.

We're Martha, Paul and oftentimes Kim - a fun-loving, outgoing, sensual & sexual, reasonably attractive, full-swap couple/thruple. Swinging is a natural extension of our open marriage with no rules other than the Golden one. We have a lust for life and live a life of lust foremost with each other and with our sexy, smart, and happy friends. We love laughter and orgasms, they definitely complement each other.

He's straight but relaxed; Martha is vibrantly bisexual, Kim is initially shy with other women but fully reciprocates a sincere approach. We all rely on mutual interest & attraction. All are always respectful of limits. The ladies are truly insatiable for that special man, woman, couple, or moresome. He is a sensualist who is a born pleaser... and always does. His talents are tireless as well... loves giving sweet sensual oral for hours or pleasing your body the hard way (Smile!!). It makes for passionate, intense, and fun play... then kisses that restart the fires when the sun comes up.

We like to entertain interesting guests, read and discuss provocative books and films, wine and dine and yes... stimulate you in all kinds of wicked ways. We enjoy meeting new friends at house parties and local clubs as well as more intimately over wine or dinner. Serenity and integrity underlie our polyamorous ways. While we enjoy playing as a couple and thruple most, flying solo is OK with mutual consent.

Within our thruple we have a BDSM dynamic with Master Paul and his ladies as slaves. We neither expect nor assume our playmates will want to play in that way. Those interested in learning about any of power exchange, service, bondage, endorphin-powered soaring through artfully applied pain, forced/denied orgasm, and the deep connection that comes with surrendering to another's will are welcome.

We realize that our profile signals an intense interest in the erotic power of sex as well as a moderate amount of experience. What it doesn't say as well is that with every partner we are alive in the moment and sensitive to their signals. We know when a strong lead is welcomed and when to let others set the pace. Our philosophy is to always tell the truth (we try) and to act with courtesy and integrity to everyone. We answer all initial emails and hope that you will extend the same courtesy to us if only to say no thanks.

Our fantasies are many, varied, and usually edgy.

One) He lends her as a plaything to a couple he's played with before. She's naked under a cape save for her collar, then blindfolded and cuffed before getting in the car. She has no idea of where she's going or what they'll require of her. At the door he unlocks the cuffs, removes the cape, kisses her goodbye, and tells her to be a good girl. They take her in and have her kneel in the middle of the floor before they begin to have their mutual way with her. He rejoins them at dinner time for group play that goes deep into the night.

Two) We go to a hot party with a few kinky couples and get into a wild orgy where she becomes airtight. At the same time he has a cum soaked pussy grinding on his mouth as he is rode cowgirl style while the sluts kiss and caress each other.

My Ideal Person: Open-minded, playful, sensual, fun-loving women, couples, and moresomes who enjoy conversation, smile, who make passionate love, and love great uninhibited sex.

We're looking for select partners to share anything from a NSA evening together to a long-term friends with benefits relationship. All are welcome - first timers ready for full swap to experienced couples. You should have a wicked sense of humor, a strong libido, and a successful life, i.e., well-bred intellectuals who are profoundly in touch with their primal selves, paradoxes and all.

We seek those who believe in truth and integrity in all things and who understand that beauty, sensuality, desire, and arousal start between the ears. Chemistry for us is ineffable. It's expressed as kisses that connect persons and not personas, being intimate as well as naked, and internal happiness revealed in laughter and sweaty enthusiasm. While body shape matters, we trust more to desire breeding reciprocal desire and the aphrodisiac of a happy smile. An adventuresome spirit that's engaged with everyone present - plus being good, giving, and game in the bed and out - are essential qualities. Kissing is an important element of intimacy for us. If that's uncomfortable for you then we're probably not a match. Cultural inhibitions are both a different story and respected.

Single males: Martha initiates contact with exceptional single males herself with advice and consent from Paul. To keep expectations reasonable, she's never responded to anyone she hasn't already met.

Contacting us: While we don't expect long introductory letters, please have more finesse than, "Read your profile, you're sexy, when can we meet?" as it inclines us to a less gentle honesty. If you're no longer a couple, please have the integrity to update your profile to reflect that. Clear English makes a much more favorable impression than texting jargon.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
REM, Mary Chapin Carpenter, Pat Metheny

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A store dressing room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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