There has to be other people like me out there. I was married, but not anymore, and I no longer have the responsibility of household and family. I work and I drive. I live with roommates and one dog, and I'm very happy here. I've graduated college and have a terrific group of close friends. I have more time and space in my life, and It seems like a perfect time to explore my carnal desires. I'd like to think of myself as kind, hard-working, a peacemaker and a peace keeper, slutty, happy-go-lucky, and loyal. My friends would say that I am funny, smart, tender-hearted, a survivor, and they, too, would say that I am slutty. All my life I've engaged in serial monogamy and infidelities. I don’t cheat anymore because I realized that non-monogamy is a thing and so is swinging. I don’t ever want to go back to being monogamous! I enjoy sex and I enjoy people, and I most enjoy sex when I enjoy the per or people I am having sex with. And this is a nice segway for this: \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\**things that turn me off: having to pull entire conversations out of you. It's okay if you are shy, but if you are not shy, please try to sound interesting. I don't know, I have noticed people don't really know how to talk to each other. I am pretty good at encouraging a good tennis-match style conversation, but some people just don't say anything or they say silly things like, "Send nudes." It's not that I don't have them, I do have nudes. They're great! I worked hard on them--getting the right angles and lighting. I love my nudes. And that's why you can't just go and ask for them. I want to enjoy you and if I have to drag words out of you, then it just won’t work. Think about that before you message me. AND WHY CAN’T YOU SHOW ME YOUR NUDES FIRST WITHOUT ASKING ME FOR ANYTHING?! (But really, only single men do this. Or men who are about to be single.) I won't respond to single men, and I prefer when the woman of the couple contacts me. I won't date anyone under 35. No one. I am loyal, but not faithful. I have tried. I am unable to can. I do not see a problem with this because all of my relationships and sexual activities are consensual. I don't have sex with minors and I don't have sex with people who are cheating on their spouses. It's just too much drama keeping secrets. Random things I like: hip hop; oral sex, anal sex, dp, mmf, ffm, fmfm; cannibas; coffee; metallica; GoT; Scrabble; nachos; Grand Lake Theater; watching fireworks; Club Twist.

My Ideal Person I really like good parents. I know that's weird to read on a sex site, but good parents have really good social skills: they know how to fulfill obligations and know when to say no. Good parents are kind and thoughtful (like they always have snacks in their car and will offer it to you randomly throughout the day). Good parents want good things for their kids so good parents make sure to engage in reasonably good risk behavior--they don't go overboard.

If you're not a parent,which is fine, I can tell good qualities based on how you talk about yourself and how you talk to me. I have had great success in life meeting women who are just the whole package of sweet, smart and have captivating personalities. They seemed to all either like their jobs, travel, live locally and have roots, have friends and family that they see regularly and are close to. The only thing I care about regarding body type is that you love your body. If you love your body, you will appreciate the things I'm going to do to it.

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