We are a happily married couple with a GREAT sex life and very much enjoy adding even more excitement both in and out of the bedroom. We are open to play on the first "date" as long as everyone is on the same page. We are a non pushy couple and only go at the pace of the couple we are with. We enjoy soft swap and love full swap. We definitely respect likes and dislikes, and we are discreet. We are same room play so we can enjoy watching the other be pleased, and we only play together.. we don't do separate play dates. We are both open minded for different kinds of play so don't be afraid to ask... you never know.. we might be up for it.